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Why is this lady bashing Robert Smith & his wife??

Or is this some sort of joke I'm not getting, thought someone here might know:

https://getsatisfaction.com/interscope/topics/robert_smith_of_the_cure

Re: Why is this lady bashing Robert Smith & his wife??

Has it appeared to you that maybe a fake Robert Smith did and does all this harm to you ?
How do you know absoluttely sure it is him ?
I had an argument ( by the way it was actually more of a hellish battle ) a long time ago here with someone pretending to be Robert Smith as well,
and he was even worse!!!
For sure there will be times that the real Robert Smith has a temper, like we all have, but what you describe in my opinion has little to do with his caracter that he shows the world.

By the way I met him twice and the last time after we spoke and I wanted to leave in a split second I saw a not so very nice face looking at me, before he was very kind
Also it was the first meeting I had with God, that I only realised about a little less then 30 years now was at that very day !
I know he must have sensed something too, only he couldn't or didn't want to intrepet as such, maybe he just didn't understand

Just a boy and a girl

Lots of Love
Levs

Re: Why is this lady bashing Robert Smith & his wife??

It's not me.....it's some other girl saying that stuff.

Re: Why is this lady bashing Robert Smith & his wife??

Ok, I hope she's surrounded by good people, who can make her see...

Lots of Love
Levs

Re: Why is this lady bashing Robert Smith & his wife??

Well as someone who has been diagnosed with schizophrenia, I would say she is in a psychosis because she is clearly delusional.

I found that hilarious to read, thanks for the laugh! :)

Yes Levs, maybe someone could suggest that she see a psychiatrist.

Re: Why is this lady bashing Robert Smith & his wife??

Well let's assume someone is harassing her, it could be a real person.
If it would happen to me I'd inform the police and for sure one way or the other she'll get help to get rid of this person(s).
be sure that police have experience to sort out if she has a problem and yes if so, I hope and pray she gets help from a psychiatrist.
Believe me it's hard to make that decision, to admit you have a serious mental problem.
In my country you can only be hospitalized if you are a danger for yourself ( to attemmt suicide)
or to someone else ( threath/attemt to killl someone else)

Lots of Love
Levs
I know from experience

Re: Why is this lady bashing Robert Smith & his wife??

Levs I've been there I know. On my first visit to a shrink I explained to him how people could talk to you through the T.V. and my family had to go through the private system to get me help.

There is no point being anything other than direct to AfterMidnight, she's the one who wants to know why.

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leahcl wrote:
Levs I've been there I know. On my first visit to a shrink I explained to him how people could talk to you through the T.V. and my family had to go through the private system to get me help.

There is no point being anything other than direct to AfterMidnight, she's the one who wants to know why.

Re: Why is this lady bashing Robert Smith & his wife??

And what id it is true ...?

Oh, my God

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ti8tgowbb wrote:

leahcl wrote:
Levs I've been there I know. On my first visit to a shrink I explained to him how people could talk to you through the T.V. and my family had to go through the private system to get me help.

There is no point being anything other than direct to AfterMidnight, she's the one who wants to know why.

I picked up the impression that this person picked up a scary internet cootie who has been pretending to be Robert AND Mary, both. I feel for her, but I feel even more right now for Robert AND Mary, who have been slandered by this absurd accusation.

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I don't think we've had anyone since fake-Mary. This girl needs help

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TI don't remember a different fake Mary, here, beyond the last fake Mary.

Didn't she state she "met" Robert on the forum, here, back 13 years ago? There wasn't a forum here 13 years ago!

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ti8tgowbb wrote:
I don't remember a different fake Mary, here, beyond the last fake Mary.

Didn't she state she "met" Robert on the forum, here, back 13 years ago? There wasn't a forum here 13 years ago!

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cats_n_cheese wrote:

ti8tgowbb wrote:
I don't remember a different fake Mary, here, beyond the last fake Mary.

Didn't she state she "met" Robert on the forum, here, back 13 years ago? There wasn't a forum here 13 years ago!

Fake-Mary was a tad confused ;-)

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ti8tgowbb wrote:

cats_n_cheese wrote:

ti8tgowbb wrote:
I don't remember a different fake Mary, here, beyond the last fake Mary.

Didn't she state she "met" Robert on the forum, here, back 13 years ago? There wasn't a forum here 13 years ago!

Fake-Mary was a tad confused ;-)

I remember Robert objected to the fake Mary post. I feel sorry for celebrities caught up in bullshit like this. These are harsh allegations. I'd be calling the cops on her!

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cats_n_cheese wrote:
I don't think we've had anyone since fake-Mary. This girl needs help

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ti8tgowbb wrote:
TI don't remember a different fake Mary, here, beyond the last fake Mary.

Didn't she state she "met" Robert on the forum, here, back 13 years ago? There wasn't a forum here 13 years ago!

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leahcl wrote:

ti8tgowbb wrote:
TI don't remember a different fake Mary, here, beyond the last fake Mary.

Didn't she state she "met" Robert on the forum, here, back 13 years ago? There wasn't a forum here 13 years ago!

She might have just cruised past the website and it manifested. That would have been Bloodflowers and there was a section with some of Robert's personal likes? It might have been enough to start her tripping. There was another site before that one as well if you take it to 13 years exact.

Re: Why is this lady bashing Robert Smith & his wife??

...well I hope it gets taken down. Or maybe our comments will help her be less crazy.

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cats_n_cheese wrote:
I don't think we've had anyone since fake-Mary. This girl needs help

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AfterMidnight wrote:
...well I hope it gets taken down. Or maybe our comments will help her be less crazy.

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Aurorababe wrote:

cats_n_cheese wrote:
I don't think we've had anyone since fake-Mary. This girl needs help

We did have that little girl a short while ago claiming that she and Robert were an item. I wish I could remember her name without trawling back through all the old posts.
As far as I'm aware she hasn't been back for ages. I wonder if it's the same person?
Whoever this person is who posted that.....why did she post it on the Geffen/Interscope site?
IF she's certain it is them she should know that The Cure have nothing to do with Geffen any more. Why has she not informed the police?
Imo, she's very, very delusional...and quite a dangerous person. Very sad.

Re: Why is this lady bashing Robert Smith & his wife??

If you look at her profile she's made multiple posts about this...

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She's on Facebook under the same name and profile pic. She seems pretty normal on there! I'd pm her but I don't think she's stable enough to take direct action from someone... Apparently she's actually working towards a phd in psychology. Oh dear. Stalking over!

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ti8tgowbb wrote:

cats_n_cheese wrote:

ti8tgowbb wrote:
I don't remember a different fake Mary, here, beyond the last fake Mary.

Didn't she state she "met" Robert on the forum, here, back 13 years ago? There wasn't a forum here 13 years ago!

Fake-Mary was a tad confused ;-)

I remember Robert objected to the fake Mary post. I feel sorry for celebrities caught up in bullshit like this. These are harsh allegations. I'd be calling the cops on her!

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Wow. Ok. I just read her rant. I-S-S-U-E-S!!!!!!!!
She's a bit scary and clearly delusional. Maybe she is bi-polar and having a manic episode? I once lived with a girl who was bi-polar and she refused to take medication. As a result she would have periods where she would be totally out of touch with reality and make up stories involving aliens and government conspiracies and how she had been kidnapped and experimented on. She totally believed herself, but at times it was really scary.
This girl reminds me a lot of her in her rantings.

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Ahhhh yep there she is on facebook...I am so messaging her. Will let you know if I get a reply.

Re: Why is this lady bashing Robert Smith & his wife??

Ok so here's what I said to her...


Hi Stephie...on behalf of TheCure.com forum members...just wondering what it is you are hoping to achieve by posting your comments about Robert and Mary Smith on getsatisfaction.com? The link has been posted in the forum section of thecure.com. It really is quite bizarre (and somewhat disturbing) that you would say such things and I just wanted to point out that such comments have the potential to lead to legal action, and perhaps you should rethink/withdraw what you have accused these people of?
As I am sure you are aware, things you post on the internet are there FOREVER, and could get you into trouble.
I wish you no disrespect, but feel concerned not only for your own well being, but also for that of Robert and Mary, who no doubt if they were to read this would feel a great deal of anger and disappointment.
I invite you to respond in the forum section of www.thecure.com. A lot of people would be very interested in your reply.
Take care,

Rachel.

Re: Why is this lady bashing Robert Smith & his wife??

That's precisely what I wanted to say to her... thanks for putting it to words!

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AfterMidnight wrote:
That's precisely what I wanted to say to her... thanks for putting it to words!

Re: Why is this lady bashing Robert Smith & his wife??

Nicely put Rachy. :)
I wonder if she'll reply?

Re: Why is this lady bashing Robert Smith & his wife??

Spot on Rachy, thanks for sending that to her! Hopefully she'll realise that things like that can and often do have consequences!

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rachybee wrote:
Ok so here's what I said to her...


Hi Stephie...on behalf of TheCure.com forum members...just wondering what it is you are hoping to achieve by posting your comments about Robert and Mary Smith on getsatisfaction.com? The link has been posted in the forum section of thecure.com. It really is quite bizarre (and somewhat disturbing) that you would say such things and I just wanted to point out that such comments have the potential to lead to legal action, and perhaps you should rethink/withdraw what you have accused these people of?
As I am sure you are aware, things you post on the internet are there FOREVER, and could get you into trouble.
I wish you no disrespect, but feel concerned not only for your own well being, but also for that of Robert and Mary, who no doubt if they were to read this would feel a great deal of anger and disappointment.
I invite you to respond in the forum section of www.thecure.com. A lot of people would be very interested in your reply.
Take care,

Rachel.

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rachybee wrote:
Ok so here's what I said to her...


Hi Stephie...on behalf of TheCure.com forum members...just wondering what it is you are hoping to achieve by posting your comments about Robert and Mary Smith on getsatisfaction.com? The link has been posted in the forum section of thecure.com. It really is quite bizarre (and somewhat disturbing) that you would say such things and I just wanted to point out that such comments have the potential to lead to legal action, and perhaps you should rethink/withdraw what you have accused these people of?
As I am sure you are aware, things you post on the internet are there FOREVER, and could get you into trouble.
I wish you no disrespect, but feel concerned not only for your own well being, but also for that of Robert and Mary, who no doubt if they were to read this would feel a great deal of anger and disappointment.
I invite you to respond in the forum section of www.thecure.com. A lot of people would be very interested in your reply.
Take care,

Rachel.

Re: Why is this lady bashing Robert Smith & his wife??

She's still on FB, but she does need help of some kind. The things she's accusing of are very serious indeed

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leahcl wrote:

rachybee wrote:
Ok so here's what I said to her...


Hi Stephie...on behalf of TheCure.com forum members...just wondering what it is you are hoping to achieve by posting your comments about Robert and Mary Smith on getsatisfaction.com? The link has been posted in the forum section of thecure.com. It really is quite bizarre (and somewhat disturbing) that you would say such things and I just wanted to point out that such comments have the potential to lead to legal action, and perhaps you should rethink/withdraw what you have accused these people of?
As I am sure you are aware, things you post on the internet are there FOREVER, and could get you into trouble.
I wish you no disrespect, but feel concerned not only for your own well being, but also for that of Robert and Mary, who no doubt if they were to read this would feel a great deal of anger and disappointment.
I invite you to respond in the forum section of www.thecure.com. A lot of people would be very interested in your reply.
Take care,

Rachel.

I totally agree with what you wrote but I don't think messaging her on Facebook was a good idea, now she's got a real stalker. She's paranoid and delusional. I just looked her up on Facebook and can't find her. She's probably shut down her page. Also you posted a personal message in a site she's supposed to swing by. I know what she wrote was hurtful to Mary and Robert but it read like she was right on the edge.

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rachybee wrote:

leahcl wrote:

rachybee wrote:
Ok so here's what I said to her...


Hi Stephie...on behalf of TheCure.com forum members...just wondering what it is you are hoping to achieve by posting your comments about Robert and Mary Smith on getsatisfaction.com? The link has been posted in the forum section of thecure.com. It really is quite bizarre (and somewhat disturbing) that you would say such things and I just wanted to point out that such comments have the potential to lead to legal action, and perhaps you should rethink/withdraw what you have accused these people of?
As I am sure you are aware, things you post on the internet are there FOREVER, and could get you into trouble.
I wish you no disrespect, but feel concerned not only for your own well being, but also for that of Robert and Mary, who no doubt if they were to read this would feel a great deal of anger and disappointment.
I invite you to respond in the forum section of www.thecure.com. A lot of people would be very interested in your reply.
Take care,

Rachel.

I totally agree with what you wrote but I don't think messaging her on Facebook was a good idea, now she's got a real stalker. She's paranoid and delusional. I just looked her up on Facebook and can't find her. She's probably shut down her page. Also you posted a personal message in a site she's supposed to swing by. I know what she wrote was hurtful to Mary and Robert but it read like she was right on the edge.

I did that for a few reasons Leah...

1) She needs to be made aware that when she says something in one place on the internet, it has the possibility (and is in fact inevitable) that they will end up being quoted elsewhere (as they have been here because Aftermidnight posted the link).

2) It may encourage her to stop if she knows that her comments have been seen by other people on this forum.

3) I didn't particularly want to deal with her again personally through fb.

4)I have a genuine concern for her state of mind.

Whether you think she is delusional or not, these comments need to stop and could very well get her in a lot of trouble.

Oh, and I would hardly equate sending her one message as being a "real stalker". I don't intend contacting her again, it is up to her now. She wasn't hard to find on fb...typed in her name and she was first on the list.

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leahcl wrote:

rachybee wrote:

leahcl wrote:

rachybee wrote:
Ok so here's what I said to her...


Hi Stephie...on behalf of TheCure.com forum members...just wondering what it is you are hoping to achieve by posting your comments about Robert and Mary Smith on getsatisfaction.com? The link has been posted in the forum section of thecure.com. It really is quite bizarre (and somewhat disturbing) that you would say such things and I just wanted to point out that such comments have the potential to lead to legal action, and perhaps you should rethink/withdraw what you have accused these people of?
As I am sure you are aware, things you post on the internet are there FOREVER, and could get you into trouble.
I wish you no disrespect, but feel concerned not only for your own well being, but also for that of Robert and Mary, who no doubt if they were to read this would feel a great deal of anger and disappointment.
I invite you to respond in the forum section of www.thecure.com. A lot of people would be very interested in your reply.
Take care,

Rachel.

I totally agree with what you wrote but I don't think messaging her on Facebook was a good idea, now she's got a real stalker. She's paranoid and delusional. I just looked her up on Facebook and can't find her. She's probably shut down her page. Also you posted a personal message in a site she's supposed to swing by. I know what she wrote was hurtful to Mary and Robert but it read like she was right on the edge.

I did that for a few reasons Leah...

1) She needs to be made aware that when she says something in one place on the internet, it has the possibility (and is in fact inevitable) that they will end up being quoted elsewhere (as they have been here because Aftermidnight posted the link).

2) It may encourage her to stop if she knows that her comments have been seen by other people on this forum.

3) I didn't particularly want to deal with her again personally through fb.

4)I have a genuine concern for her state of mind.

Whether you think she is delusional or not, these comments need to stop and could very well get her in a lot of trouble.

Oh, and I would hardly equate sending her one message as being a "real stalker". I don't intend contacting her again, it is up to her now. She wasn't hard to find on fb...typed in her name and she was first on the list.

Thanks for your explanation Rachy, it will help everyone. There is nothing wrong with your reasoning or motivation, I just don't like the way you went about it. You would have achieved the same by posting a comment on the offending page. It's only my opinion.

Don't know why she doesn't come up on my Facebook search. Oh well.

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rachybee wrote:

leahcl wrote:

rachybee wrote:

leahcl wrote:

rachybee wrote:
Ok so here's what I said to her...


Hi Stephie...on behalf of TheCure.com forum members...just wondering what it is you are hoping to achieve by posting your comments about Robert and Mary Smith on getsatisfaction.com? The link has been posted in the forum section of thecure.com. It really is quite bizarre (and somewhat disturbing) that you would say such things and I just wanted to point out that such comments have the potential to lead to legal action, and perhaps you should rethink/withdraw what you have accused these people of?
As I am sure you are aware, things you post on the internet are there FOREVER, and could get you into trouble.
I wish you no disrespect, but feel concerned not only for your own well being, but also for that of Robert and Mary, who no doubt if they were to read this would feel a great deal of anger and disappointment.
I invite you to respond in the forum section of www.thecure.com. A lot of people would be very interested in your reply.
Take care,

Rachel.

I totally agree with what you wrote but I don't think messaging her on Facebook was a good idea, now she's got a real stalker. She's paranoid and delusional. I just looked her up on Facebook and can't find her. She's probably shut down her page. Also you posted a personal message in a site she's supposed to swing by. I know what she wrote was hurtful to Mary and Robert but it read like she was right on the edge.

I did that for a few reasons Leah...

1) She needs to be made aware that when she says something in one place on the internet, it has the possibility (and is in fact inevitable) that they will end up being quoted elsewhere (as they have been here because Aftermidnight posted the link).

2) It may encourage her to stop if she knows that her comments have been seen by other people on this forum.

3) I didn't particularly want to deal with her again personally through fb.

4)I have a genuine concern for her state of mind.

Whether you think she is delusional or not, these comments need to stop and could very well get her in a lot of trouble.

Oh, and I would hardly equate sending her one message as being a "real stalker". I don't intend contacting her again, it is up to her now. She wasn't hard to find on fb...typed in her name and she was first on the list.

Thanks for your explanation Rachy, it will help everyone. There is nothing wrong with your reasoning or motivation, I just don't like the way you went about it. You would have achieved the same by posting a comment on the offending page. It's only my opinion.

Don't know why she doesn't come up on my Facebook search. Oh well.

You seem to be suggesting my intentions were sinister (maybe I am interpreting you wrong), which I assure you they were not. Wherever I posted it makes no difference, I still would have said the same thing (and I think you may have missed my point about why I chose facebook but that's fine). As I mentioned I have dealt with people who are similar before and maybe I thought I could help her in some way by pointing out that her actions were inappropriate. If you are concerned that she may read and respond badly to some of the comments on this thread you could always go back and edit yours if you wish. Maybe she will appreciate the honesty. Who knows? :)

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leahcl wrote:

rachybee wrote:

leahcl wrote:

rachybee wrote:

leahcl wrote:

rachybee wrote:
Ok so here's what I said to her...


Hi Stephie...on behalf of TheCure.com forum members...just wondering what it is you are hoping to achieve by posting your comments about Robert and Mary Smith on getsatisfaction.com? The link has been posted in the forum section of thecure.com. It really is quite bizarre (and somewhat disturbing) that you would say such things and I just wanted to point out that such comments have the potential to lead to legal action, and perhaps you should rethink/withdraw what you have accused these people of?
As I am sure you are aware, things you post on the internet are there FOREVER, and could get you into trouble.
I wish you no disrespect, but feel concerned not only for your own well being, but also for that of Robert and Mary, who no doubt if they were to read this would feel a great deal of anger and disappointment.
I invite you to respond in the forum section of www.thecure.com. A lot of people would be very interested in your reply.
Take care,

Rachel.

I totally agree with what you wrote but I don't think messaging her on Facebook was a good idea, now she's got a real stalker. She's paranoid and delusional. I just looked her up on Facebook and can't find her. She's probably shut down her page. Also you posted a personal message in a site she's supposed to swing by. I know what she wrote was hurtful to Mary and Robert but it read like she was right on the edge.

I did that for a few reasons Leah...

1) She needs to be made aware that when she says something in one place on the internet, it has the possibility (and is in fact inevitable) that they will end up being quoted elsewhere (as they have been here because Aftermidnight posted the link).

2) It may encourage her to stop if she knows that her comments have been seen by other people on this forum.

3) I didn't particularly want to deal with her again personally through fb.

4)I have a genuine concern for her state of mind.

Whether you think she is delusional or not, these comments need to stop and could very well get her in a lot of trouble.

Oh, and I would hardly equate sending her one message as being a "real stalker". I don't intend contacting her again, it is up to her now. She wasn't hard to find on fb...typed in her name and she was first on the list.

Thanks for your explanation Rachy, it will help everyone. There is nothing wrong with your reasoning or motivation, I just don't like the way you went about it. You would have achieved the same by posting a comment on the offending page. It's only my opinion.

Don't know why she doesn't come up on my Facebook search. Oh well.

You seem to be suggesting my intentions were sinister (maybe I am interpreting you wrong), which I assure you they were not. Wherever I posted it makes no difference, I still would have said the same thing (and I think you may have missed my point about why I chose facebook but that's fine). As I mentioned I have dealt with people who are similar before and maybe I thought I could help her in some way by pointing out that her actions were inappropriate. If you are concerned that she may read and respond badly to some of the comments on this thread you could always go back and edit yours if you wish. Maybe she will appreciate the honesty. Who knows? :)

Rachy, you haven't got a sinister bone in your body!

Oh, Come On

I just clicked the link and read. Bitch is obviously a little confused- that sounds nothing like RS.

As far as Miss Mary being "built"? Hell yeah, she was/is!
Anyone who's seen pics of RS's wife knows she had/has a BOD. Lovely face, gorgeous figure circa 1989 and beyond.

Not sure about her now, as we don't get many pics iof Miss Mary, but, hell yeah.


This article seems silly and stuff.

XOXO

Re: Why is this lady bashing Robert Smith & his wife??

I posted too, helas I was a bit too fast and it's under my sons name.
Oh, well I told her what I was thinking.
We shouldn't worry anymore
If she has some kind of a disorder only medication will help her
If she has been stalked by certain people for such a long time I think it is the duty of her parents, other family, friends, a neighbor, acquanintances to help her take this evidence to a lawyer, then to the police
The truth always comes out, God knows

Lots of Love
Levs

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LOSTGIRLJERUSALEM wrote:
I posted too, helas I was a bit too fast and it's under my sons name.
Oh, well I told her what I was thinking.
We shouldn't worry anymore
If she has some kind of a disorder only medication will help her
If she has been stalked by certain people for such a long time I think it is the duty of her parents, other family, friends, a neighbor, acquanintances to help her take this evidence to a lawyer, then to the police
The truth always comes out, God knows

Lots of Love
Levs

Re: Why is this lady bashing Robert Smith & his wife??

Hey, everyone:
That’s awesome how you all came together to help the obviously disturbed lady. It seems she had posted similar rants over the past few days, with no one responding. I’m very impressed with your efforts. Nicely done!

Have a wonderful weekend!

Re: Why is this lady bashing Robert Smith & his wife??

Wow, a long seriously thread....

I feel bad for this girl. either she is really delusional, she just making things up to get attention or she is really getting stalked by someone. ANY way it must be horrible being her :-(

Hope she will get better.....