Begin Trans 101 rant
when I first came out as being trans...I had envisioned quiet teas with each of my friends and colleagues...I moved through this catalogue gracefully. My friends simply understood...
Thing is coming out over and over again is painful over and over again...Every time It comes up it is rather the equivalent of standing in a crowd naked whilst tools of doom and mass destruction are leveled at my head proving/explaining convincing that I do indeed exist..as a solid and individuated being.
this repeated process reminds me that I can not simply exist within the comfort zone of my self actualization...
but must explain/prove/ my exact physiological being in regards to my self concept and identity. ..tying everything just mentioned in a philosophical bow that is both attractive and easy to swallow. SO from now on I'm going to wear a gender T, carry brochures and keep an auditorium booked so I can trans 101 a few hundred at a time...
end Trans 101 rant.
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